‘My Husband Wants It Almost Every Minute, and It’s Affecting My Job,’ Woman Opens Up About Marital Status

A young mother of two has shared her emotional journey of love, marriage, and the challenges that have come with it, revealing how her husband’s unrelenting desire for intimacy has begun to affect her professional life.

The woman, who tied the knot with her husband in 2017, described how their marriage—once peaceful and full of understanding—has lately become strained due to her partner’s excessive demands.According to her account, their relationship began in an unexpected but traditional way. Her mother, who worked alongside her husband’s mother at a government hospital, introduced them shortly after she completed her university education and was awaiting her NYSC call-up. At the time, she had no intention of settling down so soon, as her focus was on kickstarting her career.

However, as the firstborn, she faced constant reminders from her mother about the importance of marriage and stability. What began as gentle encouragement eventually became firm persuasion. Out of respect and trust for her mother’s judgment, she agreed to meet the young man—and to her surprise, their connection was instant.

Their friendship blossomed into love, and they eventually exchanged vows in a modest ceremony attended by close family and friends. Within a few years, they were blessed with two children and a relatively peaceful home life.But now, the woman says, her husband’s overwhelming desire for constant physical attention has left her feeling drained. “It’s beginning to affect my focus at work and my overall productivity,” she lamented. “I love my husband dearly, but I wish he understood that I also need rest and space to concentrate on my career and our children.”

Despite the tension this issue has brought into their home, she admits that her marriage remains grounded in love and mutual respect. She also credits her mother for steering her into marriage, acknowledging that what once felt like pressure eventually led her to a meaningful partnership.

Her story has sparked conversations online about the balance between intimacy, communication, and personal boundaries in marriage—especially among working women who juggle the dual demands of family life and career.